Am i being a facebook creeper?

so i was at a concert for a local cover band last weekend and throughout the whole concert the drummer and i were making eye contact and we smiled at each other a few times. i didn't have the guts to go up and introduce myself after the concert, but i was able to find his band's facebook page and therefore his name, so i friended him-is that creepy? i also sent him 2 messages over the past week, which he replied to. he told me that his band would be playing tonight, and said "i hope i'll see you there!" okay so would it be weird for me to go up and introduce myself at the concert tonight? i don't want to seem like i'm stalking him, but i do want to meet him. and if i do introduce myself...what do i say..."hi! i'm that girl from facebook! wanna be real friends?!?


i did refrain from wishing him a happy birthday on facebook yesterday....cuz yea i felt like that would be going over the top! haha


anyways...where do i draw the line on being a creep versus just being interested??

Am i being a facebook creeper?
Hehe you already drew the line! That's not being creepy, that's being interested. If he was creeped out, he wouldn't have responded and said "hope to see you there!" Just go up and introduce yourself - tell him your name and say "I'm the one from facebook" or something. Depending on how the conversation goes, wish him a happy belated birthday :) Good luck!
Reply:Since he said he hopes he'll see you there, when you go to the concert, go up to him and say "here I am. i am----------- from facebook". Remember to add that it is weird and you dont want to seem like a stalker; you were just shy that first night.


Remember, he may not rememember who you are as te band may get loads of mail via facebook, don't take it personally.
Reply:it doesn't sound like ur being creepy...if his name was on the internet anyway. and it sounds like he's interested in u 2, so it's def not creepy, don't worry!
Reply:No your not being creppy/stalkish at all. From what your saying it seems like he's interested too!
Reply:i dont think ur a creeper. lol. just be yourself and if he nods at u and stuff again, introduce urself!
Reply:no! not at all.
Reply:I think if you like him then just go and take a few friends with you just to be safe!!!! since you don’t know him very well and just be cool and just say that you wanted to check it out his band don’t make it into a big deal and just be relaxed if you don’t like him yet just be friends with him on face book and just be cool its really up too you darling!!!





and No I don’t think you’re a Creeper so may people have done that with me on face book your just being nice who cares what other people think just be your self and do what makes you happy life is too short ok


I hope that helped Good Luck and Just be Cool dont over do it get to know him but i think he might like you and want to get to know you better so see what happnes
Reply:well it seems like he recognised you from the concert and also he said that he hopes to see you. so go for it. have fun, make eye contact, give a little wave then go introduce yourself properly after. it not that creepy saying as youve kinda met before.
Reply:Well, you're attracted to someone that you may want to get to know; however, you should keep in mind that a man who is in a band meets women like you everyday. You're just interested, but there are plenty of other women who are interested - he probably gets off on this kind of thing - so don't get your hopes up for something deep.





Also, in order to avoid becoming that "facebook creeper" don't put all your time and attention into this guy. Find something or, preferably, someone else to occupy your time.