Should I do this to him? Would he think im a stalker/creeper?

I like this guy ALOT.


These days I am forcing myself not to like him because..idk.


but I can't help it. I like him alot.


tomorrow is his bday and I was wondering if i should send him an ecard wishing him happy birthday with him knowing who sent it.


But if i say happy bday to him in person tomorrow will he know it was me who sent it?


We hardly talk to each other.





im too shy to talk to him in person

Should I do this to him? Would he think im a stalker/creeper?
You could say hi Happy Birthday I heard it was your birthday today and leave it at that. If he wants the convo to go any further he will make the next move.
Reply:send him an ecard and sign your name. Go for it !!
Reply:no if you don't know him very well he'll think your wierd and be creeped out, get to know him first. he may be a diffrent person than you think
Reply:you'll have to do it in person.





how you got his email without him knowing you is creepy and stalkish in itself.





why be too shy? i know you may think the world may fall upon you if something negative would to come of it.





however, are you attracted to people who are rude and disrespectful? i would like not to think so, i gauruntee all your fear of rejection are purely fears...





WOMAN UP and say hi, happy birthday.. you can even walk off right after you say it.





This way you establish yourself, you made him acknowledge your existance, then you can randomly say hello, smile, etc.. then when at the final point you are comfortable with carrying on a conversation and getting to know the young man, are you in a perfect position to do so with no awkwardness.
Reply:I honestly don't see why wishing someone happy birthday would make you seem like a stalker. If you like him, pluck up the courage to speak to him in person, what's the worst that could happen? I'll tell you; he could say no he doesn't like you back. That's the worst that can happen, but you won't get anywhere with him unless you try.